Have you noticed this painfully real phenomenon: you graduate from a top university, land a job at a major tech firm, pull a high salary, and to outsiders you’re a winner in life — yet at 40 you’re still gasping for air under your mortgage. After every paycheck, after the bills come out, even putting aside a small emergency fund feels hard. You work as hard as you possibly can, so why can’t you escape the “busier yet poorer” spiral?
In fact the answer was never hidden in salary levels or inflation rates, but in a kind of money cognition that no one ever systematically taught us. Our education level isn’t low, but textbooks never seriously teach us how to save, how to invest, and certainly not how to make money work for us. Most of this crucial financial knowledge can only be passed down through families, and children from ordinary families are more likely to develop a conservative, risk-averse money mindset — which is the root cause of why so many people stay trapped in the “busier yet poorer” spiral.
The book Rich Dad Poor Dad lays bare this underlying logic.
The Poor Dad Trap: The Word “Stability” Hijacks an Entire Life
All around us, too many parents are drilling one idea into their children: study hard, get into a good university, land a good job. Whether it’s a tech giant, a financial institution, or a civil service gig, the word “stable” rules. Even graduates from elite schools with master’s or doctoral degrees, in terms of money mindset, are mostly cut from the same cloth as the “poor dad.”
Look at those top-performing engineers, doctors, and accountants — many of them are plagued by financial problems year after year. The core reason is being hijacked by stability: once they’re in a good company, they don’t dare quit easily, they collect a fixed salary every month, they count on the year-end bonus, the days look fine on the surface, but they can never save anything, let alone achieve financial freedom.
Speaking of this, we have to mention Robert Kiyosaki, the author of Rich Dad Poor Dad. His biological father walked the familiar “stability path” we all know — valuing credentials, pursuing a career in education, yet like many others, constantly troubled by money problems. He is the “poor dad” in the book.
When Robert was a child, he asked his poor dad how to get rich and got the same answer most parents give: “Study hard, get a good job.” But an answer like that doesn’t solve the underlying problem at all.
Robert had a good friend named Mike, whose father ran construction companies, shopping centers, and multiple restaurants — the “rich dad” in the book. It was the rich dad who personally taught Robert and Mike how money actually works.
The Rich Dad’s Two Doors: Did You Choose the Left or the Right?
The rich dad used to make a vivid metaphor — life is like two doors.
The door on the left — your income depends entirely on how much effort you put in. You might strike it rich overnight, or you might end up with nothing. Behind this door lie entrepreneurship, investing, assets — you take on risk, but you also exchange it for unlimited possibility.
The door on the right — you don’t have to take much risk, you get a fixed salary every month, you won’t starve, but you’ll never get rich either. Behind this door lie stable jobs, fixed paychecks — you sell your time in exchange for a guaranteed income.
Many people shout with their mouths that they want to choose the left, but their bodies honestly burrow into the right. Take the civil service exam, join a major tech firm, chase an iron rice bowl — these ideas are deeply rooted in many people’s minds: taking risks is irresponsible, stability is the foundation of a secure life.
The core reason people cling to the right-hand door is fear. Mortgage payments, car loans, kids’ tutoring fees, the family’s insurance — the moment a fixed income disappears, how can all these expenses be covered? This fear is like a rope that ties you firmly in place. Every day you squeeze onto the subway, rush to catch the bus, take home your paycheck and pay the bills, and the next day you repeat the same loop — forever trapped in this cycle.
Lots of office workers around us crack self-deprecating jokes that sound funny, but underneath lie endless helplessness. Everyone craves financial freedom, yet at the thought of having no fixed income they panic and won’t allow the slightest change. They think earning more money will rid them of fear, but as salaries rise so do expenses, and fear never really disappears — it only deepens. It’s like a hamster running on a wheel: after running all night, it wakes up and finds itself still in exactly the same spot.
The Key to Flipping Your Life: Change the Door, Not the Job
The most important lesson Kiyosaki learned from the rich dad wasn’t any investing technique — it was how to see the difference between assets and liabilities. What the rich dad taught him wasn’t “how to earn more,” but “how to let money come to you on its own.”
The rich have a simple logic: assets are things that put money into your pocket; liabilities are things that take money out of your pocket. You buy a NT$2 million car — is that an asset? For most people, no — because it depreciates, it needs gas, maintenance, parking fees — it constantly takes money out of your pocket.
The truly wealthy think like this: let the cash flow generated by assets cover the cash-flow bleeding caused by liabilities. When your passive income alone hits NT200,000 a month, do you still need to jump ship for an extra NT$5,000 in monthly salary? When your assets pay off your mortgage every month with surplus left over, will you still fear next month not having a paycheck?
You don’t need to quit your job to flip your life. What you need is to start building “the left-hand door” — even if it’s tiny at first, even if it brings only an extra NT3,000 of passive income a month, you are opening a new door. As that door opens wider and wider, the fear of the right-hand door will shrink.
What really makes you financially free isn’t a higher salary — it’s the flipping of your asset-and-liability structure.
Conclusion: Changing Your Mindset Matters More Than Changing Your Job
The real reason the busy stay poor is never that you don’t try hard enough — it’s that from the very start you chose the wrong door. The poor dad taught us to trade time for money; the rich dad taught us to trade money for time. You don’t have to be great to start; you have to start to be great.
Starting today, stop letting “stability” hijack your life. Try quietly opening the left-hand door outside the right-hand one — even if it’s just a monthly NT$3,000 DCA into a global equity ETF, you are planting a tree that will bear fruit.
Three, five, ten years from now, when you look back, you will thank the version of yourself who was willing to change a single thought. The rich dad’s two doors were never opened for geniuses — they were opened for people willing to change their minds.
Disclaimer: The views expressed in this article are general reading notes and inspirations from the book Rich Dad Poor Dad and do not constitute specific investment advice. All investing carries risk; asset prices fluctuate. Readers should make independent judgments based on their own financial situation and risk tolerance, and consult a qualified financial advisor when necessary. This article does not constitute any buy or sell recommendation.
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